My boyfriend is a total gentleman. He is loving and I am sure I am the envy of most of my friends. He has all the qualities I want in a husband.
However, I keep habouring this fear that he will cheat on me.
Honestly, he hasn’t given me any cause to suspect him. I guess I feel this way because my ex boyfriend cheated on me.
Now I am scared I may ruin this lovely relationship with my fears. We have been together for two years. I love him and I don’t want to do anything stupid. Please help.
Belinda, South Odorkor Estates
Dear Belinda, Stop wasting your time and making your life miserable with problems which do not exist. In fact, you have already wasted so much time when you could be happily leading a nice life .
Just because your ex cheated on you doesn’t mean your current man will do same. It is very unfair to think that of him. Look, you are suffering from insecurities which is a big turn off and if you are not careful, you will push him away. So do well to let go of these fears and enjoy your man.
