Illicit Encounters surveyed 2,000 people to find out the things they can't stand when it comes to sex - and the things they wish their partners would stop.
Finding out what your partner likes in bed can take time, and most people have to gain a certain level of trust before they'll discuss their intimate desires.
But it can be more obvious when you stumble across something your other half really doesn't like.
New research has found the ten things men and women hate most in the bedroom, and they're very different.
IllicitEncounters.com , a dating website for married people, surveyed 2,000 people to find out what they really couldn't stand between the sheets.
According to men, the biggest mistake women make is failing to initiate sex with 64 per cent wishing their partner got things started more often.
They also hate it when women want to have sex in the dark, and faking an orgasm is third on the list.
For woman, the biggest no-no is when men skip foreplay and rush straight into the main event.
Second is having an orgasm first, followed by being clumsy and crude dirty talk.
IllicitEncounters.com spokesperson Jessica Leoni said: "We find that what drives people to have an affair primarily is a lack sexual satisfaction at home.
"The key reason why both men and women are fed up with their partners is because they are not prepared to change and keep making these fundamental mistakes in the bedroom.
"If you avoid these simple mistakes there is less risk of your partner cheating.
"And you have a much better chance of pleasing a new lover if you do decide to cheat."
Women's 10 biggest sex mistakes, according to men
1. Fail to initiate sex
2. Always wanting sex in the dark
3. Faking an orgasm
4. Talking too much
5. Never asking for anything new
6. Mentioning what a previous lover did in bed
7. Over-thinking sex
8. Being too timid
9. Believing he is always up for sex
10. Worrying too much about how they look
Men's 10 biggest sex mistakes, according to women
1. Skipping on foreplay and rushing straight into full sex
2. Having an orgasm first
3. Being clumsy
4. Talking dirty in a crude way
5. Lack of communication/intimacy after sex
6. Fall asleep as soon as they have finished
7. Commenting on women’s body shape
8. Assume you know what she wants
9. Rigidly stick to your plan and ignoring her body language
10. Keep it completely physical with no emotional connection