My aunt beats me, no food to eat
Dear Auntie Betty, I have been facing a lot of problems at home.
I live with my aunt and she has been beating me all the time.
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Also, I do all the household chores while her children do nothing. My aunt does not give me food to eat.
What should I do?
Akosua,
Kasoa.
Dear Akosua, This is disheartening and must not be allowed to continue. Your aunt beating and refusing to give you food is a form of abuse and totally unacceptable.
It is a crime for your aunt to physically abuse and deny you food and she can be convicted for doing that to you.
You did not mention your parents. Are they around? If yes, you have to let them know immediately so that they can intervene. If your parents are not around, then you have to talk to a relative or a pastor you trust so that they can talk to your aunt to put a stop to her behaviour and treat you humanely.
If it is possible, check with your parents or relatives if they could find another family or relative who will treat you better.
Alternatively, you may call this helpline: 0800 800 800 or 0800 900 900 for help. This helpline has been provided by the Ministry of Gender, Children and Social Protection for children to call when they face any challenge. I am sure they will give you the necessary assistance.
Although you claim your aunt is maltreating you, I will urge you to continue to be respectful, do what is expected of you and play your role as a child.
Doing household chores is important and for your own benefit. So do not worry that your cousins do not lend any helping hand at home. It is their loss. Performing such chores will help you to be responsible and learn some life skills which will be beneficial for you in the future.
Furthermore, it may give you an idea of what career path you may want to follow in future. It will make you independent as well as make life a bit easier because you will be able to do a lot of things on your own.
So you see, the benefits of performing household chores are numerous so do give of your best when you are assigned any duties at home.
I wish you the very best.