We are all imperfect humans
Human beings by nature were not created to be perfect, but unfortunately, most of us pretend to be perfect; and this is one of the causes of our bane.
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Claiming to have moral standards to which ones actions do not conform, is hypocrisy.
We too often criticise and judge others, even before getting to know them or before knowing their stories. Prejudice and bigotry becloud our minds so much that we are foggy with reality.
As human beings, we must learn to accept our fellow human beings, irrespective of their culture, religion, tribe, race, social status, and background.
If we disagree with someone's lifestyle, we mustn't fear or hate them --- and to love someone doesn't also mean that we must agree with everything they do or believe. We must live our lives to inspire others. I want someone to look at me and say "Because of you, I didn't give up".
We must learn to be forgiving and patient with our friends, families and countrymen. Let's not get jealous because of the successes of our friends and families, for jealousy is just as dangerous as VooDoo/Juju.
Let's always show love to others, no matter their flaws. We can live better lives for them to emulate, instead of judging them at all times. We must be willing to accept our mistakes whenever we make them, say sorry to those we've offended or let down when we get the chance to apologise and let's be quick to forgive those who have hurt us too.
We should be a little more patient when we see flaws in others; we are no better, because we are humans. We can condemn an action respectfully and with sympathy or criticise an action constructively; in this way, we are solving problems, rather than creating more problems.
It is an imperfect world and when we are offered the privilege to make it a bit better with our pieces of advice, we should feel honoured and act accordingly instead of feeling arrogant and acting as if we are perfect ourselves.
Let's be the support system of humanity. Our belief in others can ginger them to make a change and because of us, they will be willing to fight to reach their goals in life.
Love is wise, but hatred is foolish. When we hate people, for whatever reason, we become bitter towards them --- and that bitter feeling in us, is like preparing a poison for someone else and then drinking it yourself.
The people we hate may not be aware of our dark feelings towards them, hence they are happy and living their normal lives, while we are bitter and unhappy, because we think they hurt us. Let it go.
The strong always forgive and ignore, but the weak cannot forgive. The strong person is not quick at judging others, they take their time to investigate, put themselves in the other person's shoes, before they make their conclusions
Let's be strong people and learn how to tolerate other people's opinions, even if we do not agree with them. Be a nice person to others and your niceness will make the world a better place for those who come into contact with you.