Don’t force the past out

BY: Mabel Faith Tannor
Don’t force the past out
Don’t force the past out

Meeting your soulmate or life partner is one of the best thing that can happen to every individual if only the cards are played well.

Inasmuch as many wants to know every aspect of their partner’s life, many fail to note that details of one’s past does not really matter in the relationship unlike the present .

Instead of enjoying the present moments with our partners, many will rather want to spend years digging into the bitter past of their soulmates which starts lightening the bitter pills of the life.

Maintaining the trust, truth and love that exists between one another is one of the things that can help build and repair fallen relationships.
Yes! Many wants to know every hidden aspect of their partners with transparency, many also wants to feel special by being the only one and cared for in all the areas of their lives especially within their relationships.

Most people can also attest to the fact that, if a part of your relationship life is falling, a lot of things turns upside down as well because the effect it may have.

Many do not know finding a life partner or soulmate comes with many responsibility and maturity. With a soulmate you don’t really have to go through all the pain of breakups and many other things we find with this boyfriend/girlfriend thing. But one need to be wise in handling things within the relationship.

let the past be in the past

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There is just this comfort, joy, conviction and satisfaction in meeting your soulmate who reminds and help you identify your purpose in life.

your soulmate shades you during the sunny days and help you stand when the waves gets hash irrespective of the ups and downs he or she help your soul evolve.

According to Tanaaz the author of Forever Conscious, Soul Mate is someone who is aligned with your soul and is sent to challenge, awaken and stir different parts of you in order for your soul to transcend to a higher level of consciousness and awareness. “If you really want to connect with a Soulmate, you need to align with your own soul. You need to discover who you are, honor yourself and begin following your heart. When you align with your true self, you are then instantly in the vibration of meeting your soul-mate”.

Adding to the above, Stephanie Meyer also explained that a soulmate “It’s not like love at first sight, really. It’s more like… gravity moves. When you see him/her, suddenly it’s not the earth holding you here anymore. She/ he does. And nothing matters more than that person.

build what you have in the present

You would also do anything for him/her, be anything for her… You become whatever that person needs you to be, whether that’s a protector, or a lover, or a friend, or a brother.”
One of the things destroying the peace in relationship is forcing your way to win the heart of that man or woman.

I know you don’t want to lose the person to anyone, but is just okay if you don’t force it. Don’t force to know every details about your partner because is not really worth it.

There is a saying that “fight for what you want” but I think sometimes this saying rather kill than repair. Most people keep wanting to know everything about their partners.

Don’t you think a breathing space is needed? If your partner wants you to know something about himself or herself, she will tell you at all cost if it really matters.
Yes I know it will be bad and quite painful to hear it from another person, rather than herself. One thing many forget is the fact that our partners have their own past stories which they don’t want to be reminded of.

move on with the present and forget the past

Sometimes it may not even be that he/ she doesn’t want to share. It could be that past details may not be good for the relationship.
Forcing to know everything sometimes do not encourage a lasting relationship.

Another mistake many ladies I’ll say commit is waiting for marriage proposal as long as the man opens up to talk about love, same apply to some men.

No man wants to be pushed into marriage, neither is it advisable for a lady to rush into marriage with a man because his assumed the perfect man.
Let’s not wait for all things to crumble in our relationships before we try to turn back the hand of time.

At all cost your soulmate will be there for you. Just don’t force it, give it time, nature what you have with your partner and at the right time things will flow as it was meant to be.

Give a breathing space and allow that woman or man to open up when the need be. If is not necessary just don’t force it.