The longer a couple goes without being intimate, the more ambivalence they will feel. It's like a vicious cycle, and this only increases the lack of trust, the awkwardness and the subsequent distancing. Resistance to talking about the problems and to exploring ways to be intimate only puts greater stress on the relationship.
For many people, their feelings in relationships run like a pendulum. On one side of the pendulum, they fall in love and have a rosy outlook of life . They are in love with themselves and the world around them. They are all over each other and think they will live happily ever after because they think love is all they need and their lovers can do no wrong.
BY: By Hadiza Nuhhu-Billa Quansah / The Mirror / Ghana
Although today is officially marked as the National Chocolate Day in Ghana to promote locally made chocolates (Golden Tree Chocolates), there are no bars of the chocolate in most of the big supermarkets, gift shops and other smaller shops.
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